Sometimes, life could be so frustrating. True, but by this moment in your life, you should have realized there are things you get a clearer picture of later in life which you were ignorant of earlier.
Life owes no one any explanation of how it operates except it feels to do so. It decides its time,place and whatever it needs to reveal its message to you. We have our schedule on how and when things should function in our lives. But unfortunately there are moments when things go wrong and we become frustrated, helpless and blame ourselves or others for such disappointment.
Patience tends out to be what we need during such period. It could take lesser time or longer, but one thing to know is,not everything in life works according to your schedule. Sometimes it could be what you’re to do at the moment could make you regret in the future.
1. Negative influence in decision making
When we become inpatient, we become a slave to poor decision making. We continue to take decisions we later regret because we try to force our schedule against life’s schedule. We deny to give any chance of understanding that things usually happen for a reason.
2. Waste time and unrealistic
When you’re patient, you become very realistic and save time. Rather than spending so much time asking questions for which answers you’ll hardly get, you learn to adapt and build a strong virtue of always moving forward. Wonderful things in life usually take time.
3. We work according to the plan of others
Disappointments in life shouldn’t always be seen as disappointment. Sometimes the real disappointment comes when you make decisions based on others. Life has different plans for each and everyone of us. Everyone of us have different routes in life and each route have different conditions in order to arrive its destination. So it is never logical to compare our routes because not everyone has the same experience in life.
Generally, it’s normal to feel frustrated when our wishes don’t get to fruition at the expected time. But how we go about it is what’s important. Not everything that doesn’t work out should always be considered a failure. Sometimes patience and what we learn from such situation are the only things that can help us move forward.
What happens when WE’re impatient in life is clear from the post. Highly motivational!
Hello Emma!! Thanks once more for reaching and I really appreciate the comment.
I know that patience is so important, but it is also so hard! I guess that’s why we get to practice it so often!
Hello Heidi!!Thanks a lot for commenting. You are definitely right about that. The reality is that as humans we do have the tendency of being impatient due we want things to work according to our schedule. And so we will desperately do anything to make sure it is respected. But sometimes we upset a lot of steps which would have obviously worked well for us if we learned to understand as well as exercise patience.
Patience is definitely a characteristic that I need to acquire and improve in the long run. The modern society is not really helping either as everyone is conditioned to get what they want now and fast. There is definitely room for improvement.
Hello Leo!! Thanks a lot for reaching. I totally agree with you. Sometimes we easily get influenced by society and its emphasis on how fast one needs to go in life. The little secret is you need to focus more on yourself, where you are heading to and avoid distraction as much as possible. And of course, try to exercise patience.
I always try to be patient. Some days are better than others. I do always strive to be more patient, that’s for sure.
Hello Amber!!Thanks a lot for reaching. It’s definitely important to exercise patience. It’s sometimes challenging due to the very dynamic world we live in now. But patience actually works and can help prevent you from skipping valuable stages which may be very necessary for reaching your destination.
I ask that myself all the time. Impatience can take us away from our goals, blogging is a journey, to succeed-patience is key.
Hello Vian!! Thanks once more for commenting. You are perfectly correct about that.
When you’re impatient, you often deal with more challenges in life. I think these are all accurate. I couldn’t agree more with what you said.
Hello Alison!!Thanks a lot for reaching. You are absolutely correct.
I used to be very impatient and somehow over the years managed to improve on it. I guess getting older somehow made me focus on the things that really matter.
Hello Roselle! Thanks for commenting. Yes, sometimes the lack patience makes life more challenging as we try to make life respect our own schedule, which unfortunately doesn’t always work that way.
I used to be impatient with everything especially when it comes to improvements or progress about my life. I had to learn the hard way that it wasn’t the right mindset. I agree with you here!
Hello AnnMarie!! Thanks a lot for reaching. You are absolutely right. Impatience usually results in us making so many bad choices in life and not the best mindset for our improvement. We need to learn to exercise patience in whatever we do.
I completely agree with this. I used to be so impatient but have learned from my mistakes
Thanks a lot for commenting Dee,I really do appreciate it.